Our speaker this week was Jeneen Klippel from Gateway Domestic Violence Services.
Gateway Domestic Violence Services was formed in 1977 and is formerly known as Gateway Battered Women’s Services, a non-profit 501 (C) agency. The experienced management has been servicing victims of Arapahoe County for 39 years. With more than 50 full-time, part-time and volunteers, Gateway continues to grow helping the diverse needs of our domestic violence victims.
What is domestic violence? Jeneen indicated that domestic violence can take a number of forms. Some forms of violence are physical, verbal, emotional, economic, religious, and sexual abuse. These can range from subtle, coercive forms to marital rape. Domestic violence includes female mutilation, and use of knives, blunt instruments, guns and other weapons that result in disfigurement or death.
Domestic violence affects men, women, and children. In the United States, 35.6% of women and 28.5% of men have experienced some form of domestic violence (including rape, physical violence, or stalking) by an intimate partner in their lifetime.
Globally, a female partner is more commonly the victim of such violence. Recent research shows a country’s level of gender equality directly correlates with that country’s rate of domestic violence. Partners may engage in abusive or violent behavior towards each other. The victim may act in self-defense or retaliation. Women are encouraged in developed countries to report it to the authorities. Some researchers believe domestic violence against men is under-reported. Social norms prevent men from reporting domestic abuse. Research shows men perceive reporting female abuse against them discounts their masculinity
Domestic violence occurs when the abuser believes that abuse is acceptable, justified or unlikely to be reported. It may produce intergenerational cycles of abuse in children and other family members. Family members may feel that such violence is acceptable or condoned.
Awareness, perception, definition and documentation of domestic violence differ widely from country to country. One cycle of violence is tensions rise and an act of violence is committed, followed by a period of reconciliation and calm. Victims may be feel powerless from isolation, power and control, cultural acceptance, lack of financial resources, fear, shame or to protect children.
Victims may experience physical disabilities, chronic health problems, mental illness and difficulties creating healthy relationships. They may display post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) or other psychological problems. Children in a violent household may show mental disorders and aggression. These factors can add to the legacy of abuse.
Gateway provides services in the following areas:
Counseling
Individual counseling is available for women, men and children suffering from the effects of domestic violence.
Gateway counselors work hand in hand with our clients to empower and to heal the pain and scars of abusive relationships. Part of our process includes education, self- empowerment, building self -esteem, setting boundaries, safety planning and forming healthy relationships.
We provide a 24-hour crisis line answered by trained staff and volunteers who offer referrals, counseling and crisis intervention.
At the Aurora Municipal Court, Gateway houses a Court Advocacy Program (CAP) that provides victims of domestic violence with emotional support, information on their legal options and support through the court processes.
Residential Services
Gateway operates two residential shelter facilities. The short-term facility in Aurora has 24 beds; our other (long-term) facility in southern Arapahoe county has a 15-bed capacity.
Gateway’s North residential program offers a 45-day program for adults and children fleeing domestic violence. Our South residential program offers extended stay for up to 90 days. Both residences provide adults with confidentiality, counseling and safety, enabling the rebuilding of a life free from abuse.
Social Change
Gateway promotes social change to prevent intimate partner violence from spreading. Our community outreach involves educating community groups and professional organizations about domestic violence. Staff and volunteers participate as presenters in our Speaker’s Bureau. Our team facilitates training sessions on domestic violence for area professionals. Public Service Announcements (PSAs) from affiliate organizations such as “NO More” and public relations campaigns by Gateway help drive social change. More than 100 community awareness and education presentations are delivered every year.
To learn more about Gateway, donate, or become involved please see link below.
Jeneen, thank you for your time and sharing this important information.